Bottoming is like whiskey. 

Some guys will drink whiskey a whole bunch because they like how it makes them feel in the moment, but that satisfaction is temporary and they always need more. They obviously have some internal shit to sort out too. They’re binge drinkers. This is pretty much the same as a power bottom who whores around and secretly hates himself. 

Some guys will have one or two, maybe even several bad experiences with whiskey, and then write it off completely. That doesn’t necessarily mean they hate it or even that they couldn’t love it, just that they got hurt by it and aren’t willing to try more varieties or in different scenarios with different people. Maybe their first experience was with some asshole who spiked their drink, or they drank with the wrong group, didn’t know how much was too much, etc, the reason doesn’t matter. This could be like a guy was raped or didn’t know how to prepare, maybe the guy topping him wasn’t gentle enough, or something else; there are plenty of explanations for a bad first time.

A smaller class of guys will refuse to ever try it altogether, usually because of some internal conflict. This group of people could be compared to super religious folks who are against it because they think there’s a moral issue at hand. That’s like the guy who doesn’t wanna try it because he thinks it’ll make him feminine or less of a man, but that’s complete bullshit. Taking a dick isn’t easy, and it requires grit—at least at first, you gotta take it like a man. 

Then there’s a group of men who started off trying whiskey slowly, and with other guys who knew what made a good whiskey good and could help them get started. They take their time, figure out what they like and what they don’t, and know how to get the best experience from it in the future. It’s an acquired taste. This is the type of guy you wanna be.